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Your Personal Coach
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Copyright 2001, 2002, 2003, 2004, 2005, 2006 by Kathleen Brehony. All Rights Reserved.
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 July 14, 2004

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Romance -- It’s about time -- July 14, 2004 MSWord

Romance -- It’s about time -- July 14, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 July 21, 2004

Stay off thin ice -- July 21, 2004 MSWord

Stay off thin ice -- July 21, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 July 28, 2004

The world’s foremost authority -- July 28, 2004 MSWord

The world’s foremost authority -- July 28, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 August 4, 2004

Houseguests! -- August 4, 2004 MSWord

Houseguests! -- August 4, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 August 11, 2004

Shyness -- August 11, 2004 MSWord

Shyness -- August 11, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 August 18, 2004

Pursue your dreams with action steps -- August 18, 2004 MSWord

Pursue your dreams with action steps -- August 18, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 August 25, 2004

Parents must speak with one voice -- August 25, 2004 MSWord

Parents must speak with one voice -- August 25, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 September 1, 2004

Relocating thoughts -- September 1, 2004 MSWord

Relocating thoughts -- September 1, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 September 8, 2004

Guess who’s coming to dinner -- September 8, 2004 MSWord

Guess who’s coming to dinner -- September 8, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 September 15, 2004

Sometimes I want to be alone -- September 15, 2004 MSWord

Sometimes I want to be alone -- September 15, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 September 22, 2004

Hold fast to your dream -- September 22, 2004 MSWord

Hold fast to your dream -- September 22, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 September 29, 2004

Public Rudeness -- September 29, 2004 MSWord

Public Rudeness -- September 29, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 October 6, 2004

Traveling blues -- October 6, 2004 MSWord

Traveling blues -- October 6, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 October 13, 2004

If it weren’t for bad luck... -- October 13, 2004 MSWord

If it weren’t for bad luck... -- October 13, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 October 20, 2004

Death of a relationship -- October 20, 2004 MSWord

Death of a relationship -- October 20, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 October 27, 2004

Shut up! and vote -- October 27, 2004 MSWord

Shut up! and vote -- October 27, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 November 3, 2004

Now, a plea for unity -- November 3, 2004 MSWord

Now, a plea for unity -- November 3, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 November 10, 2004

Whose home for the holidays? -- November 10, 2004, MSWord

Whose home for the holidays? -- November 10, 2004, Adobe Acrobat

 November 17, 2004

They call the wind ‘Mary’ -- November 17, 2004 MSWord

They call the wind ‘Mary’ -- November 17, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 November 24, 2004

The American holiday -- November 24, 2004 MSWord

The American holiday -- November 24, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 December 1, 2004

Plan to be open to the moment -- December 1, 2004 MSWord

Plan to be open to the moment -- December 1, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 December 8, 2004

Boundaries can be flexible -- December 8, 2004 MSWord

Boundaries can be flexible -- December 8, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 December 15, 2004

‘Tis the season to be stressed -- December 15, 2004 MSWord

‘Tis the season to be stressed -- December 15, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 December 29, 2004

 A fresh year awaits -- December 29, 2004 MSWord

 A fresh year awaits -- December 29, 2004 Adobe Acrobat

 January 5, 2005

The precariousness of life -- January 5, 2005 MSWord

The precariousness of life -- January 5, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 January 12, 2005

His other pants -- January 12, 2005 MSWord

His other pants -- January 12, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 January 19, 2005

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder -- January 19, 2005 MS Word

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder -- January 19, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 January 26, 2005

What kids will swallow -- January 26, 2005 MS Word

What kids will swallow -- January 26, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 February 2, 2005

Sharing caring -- February 2, 2005 MSWord

Sharing caring -- February 2, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 February 9, 2005

Putting a sock in it -- February 9, 2005 MSWord

Putting a sock in it -- February 9, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 February 16, 2005

The tube’s got my family! -- February 16, 2005 MSWord

The tube’s got my family! -- February 16, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 February 23, 2005

New friends and old -- February 23, 2005 MSWord

New friends and old -- February 23, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 March 2, 2005

It’s not too late -- March 2, 2005 MSWord

It’s not too late -- March 2, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 March 9, 2005

Mama mia! -- March 9, 2005 MSWord

Mama mia! -- March 9, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 March 16, 2005

Is she Jekyll or Hyde? -- March 16, 2005 MSWord

Is she Jekyll or Hyde? -- March 16, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 March 23, 2005

A mealy book-worm -- March 23, 2005 MSWord

A mealy book-worm -- March 23, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 March 30, 2005

Help for the ‘help!’less -- March 30, 2005 MSWord

Help for the ‘help!’less -- March 30, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 April 6, 2005

Hello? sailor! -- April 6, 2005 MSWord

Hello? sailor! -- April 6, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 April 13, 2005

A victim of autobiography -- April 13, 2005 MSWord

A victim of autobiography -- April 13, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 April 20, 2005

A gratitude attitude -- April 20, 2005 MSWord

A gratitude attitude -- April 20, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 May 4, 2005

Stressin’ -- May 4, 2005 MSWord

Stressin’ -- May 4, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 May 11, 2005

Don’t mind the Joneses -- May 11, 2005 MSWord

Don’t mind the Joneses -- May 11, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 May 18, 2005

 Don’t miss out on life -- May 18, 2005 MSWord

 Don’t miss out on life -- May 18, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 May 25, 2005

 Mutually assured deafness -- May 25, 2005 MSWord

 Mutually assured deafness -- May 25, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 June 1, 2005

Manana -- June 1, 2005 MSWord

Manana -- June 1, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 June 8, 2005

Opportunities of change -- June 8, 2005 MSWord

Opportunities of change -- June 8, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 June 15, 2005

Mind your mind -- June 15, 2005 MSWord

Mind your mind -- June 15, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 June 22, 2005

Eight is a crowd -- June 22, 2005 MSWord

Eight is a crowd -- June 22, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 June 29, 2005

Serving six masters -- June 29, 2005 MSWord

Serving six masters -- June 29, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 July 6, 2005

Controllers -- July 6, 2005 MSWord

Controllers -- July 6, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 July 13, 2005

The Sandwich Generation -- July 13, 2005 MSWord

The Sandwich Generation -- July 13, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 July 20, 2005

Every little thing -- July 20, 2005 MSWord

Every little thing -- July 20, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 July 27, 2005

Enough with the matches, already -- July 27, 2005 MSWord

Enough with the matches, already -- July 27, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 August 3, 2005

The old nest is looking pretty empty -- August 3, 2005 MSWord

The old nest is looking pretty empty -- August 3, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 August 10, 2005

If it weren’t for bad luck... -- August 10, 2005 MSWord

If it weren’t for bad luck... -- August 10, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 August 17, 2005

An open letter about bullies -- August 17, 2005 MSWord

An open letter about bullies -- August 17, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 August 24, 2005

I’m so tired -- August 24, 2005 MSWord

I’m so tired -- August 24, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 August 31, 2005

The answer is not in the stars -- August 31, 2005 MSWord

The answer is not in the stars -- August 31, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 September 7, 2005

The good and the bad -- September 7, 2005 MSWord

The good and the bad -- September 7, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 September 14, 2005

Forgotten friends -- September 14, 2005 MSWord

Forgotten friends -- September 14, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 September 21, 2005

The edge of the world -- September 21, 2005 MSWord

The edge of the world -- September 21, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 September 28, 2005

Team orders -- September 28, 2005 MSWord

Team orders -- September 28, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 October 5, 2005

Don’t just hold on to your dreams -- October 5, 2005 MSWord

Don’t just hold on to your dreams -- October 5, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 October 12, 2005

This is serious, too; handle with care -- October 12, 2005 MSWord

This is serious, too; handle with care -- October 12, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 October 19, 2005

Take the time to slow down -- October 19, 2005 MSWord

Take the time to slow down -- October 19, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 October 26, 2005

How to do lunch -- October 26, 2005 MSWord

How to do lunch -- October 26, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 November 2, 2005

The faster we go, the further behind we get -- November 2, 2005 MSWord

The faster we go, the further behind we get -- November 2, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 November 9, 2005

Everything and the kitchen sink -- November 9, 2005 MSWord

Everything and the kitchen sink -- November 9, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 November 16, 2005

How to think outside the box -- November 16, 2005 MSWord

How to think outside the box -- November 16, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 November 23, 2005

Grateful heart part of good health -- November 23, 2005 MSWord

Grateful heart part of good health -- November 23, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 November 30, 2005

Take care of yourself -- November 30, 2005 MSWord

Take care of yourself -- November 30, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 December 7, 2005

Resist holiday stress; plan to have fun -- December 7, 2005 MSWord

Resist holiday stress; plan to have fun -- December 7, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 December 14, 2005

Reasons to be thankful -- December 14, 2005 MSWord

Reasons to be thankful -- December 14, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 December 21, 2005

A time for humanity -- December 21, 2005 MSWord

A time for humanity -- December 21, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 December 28, 2005

Happy New Year! -- December 28, 2005 MSWord

Happy New Year! -- December 28, 2005 Adobe Acrobat

 January 4, 2006

Work comes before success -- January 4, 2006 MSWord

Work comes before success -- January 4, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 January 11, 2006

Back to the nest -- January 11, 2006 MSWord

Back to the nest -- January 11, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 January 18, 2006

Teenage challenges -- January 18, 2006 MSWord

Teenage challenges -- January 18, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 January 25, 2006

What about sportsmanship? -- January 25, 2006 MSWord

What about sportsmanship? -- January 25, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 February 1, 2006

Shyness can disable, too -- February 1, 2006 MSWord

Shyness can disable, too -- February 1, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 February 8, 2006

Employ these job-finding tools -- February 8, 2006 MSWord

Employ these job-finding tools -- February 8, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 February 15, 2006

Levels of friendship -- February 15, 2006 MSWord

Levels of friendship -- February 15, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 February 22, 2006

The scourge of drug abuse -- February 22, 2006 MSWord

The scourge of drug abuse -- February 22, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 March 1, 2006

Golden handcuffs -- March 1, 2006 MSWord

Golden handcuffs -- March 1, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 March 8, 2006

Grief knows its own time -- March 8, 2006 MSWord

Grief knows its own time -- March 8, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 March 15, 2006

No blarney in Anam Cara -- March 15, 2006 MSWord

No blarney in Anam Cara -- March 15, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 March 22, 2006

Make a note... -- March 22, 2006 MSWord

Make a note... -- March 22, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 March 29, 2006

This could be bad -- March 29, 2006 MSWord

This could be bad -- March 29, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 April 5, 2006

Time to let it out -- April 5, 2006 MSWord

Time to let it out -- April 5, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 April 12, 2006

What the world needs now -- April 12, 2006 MSWord

What the world needs now -- April 12, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 April 19, 2006

Don’t miss the dreamboat -- April 19, 2006 MSWord

Don’t miss the dreamboat -- April 19, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 April 26, 2006

Emotional baggage creating wall -- April 26, 2006 MSWord

Emotional baggage creating wall -- April 26, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 May 3, 2006

Manners aren’t obsolete -- May 3, 2006 MSWord

Manners aren’t obsolete -- May 3, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 May 10, 2006

Victim of Autobiography -- May 10, 2006 MSWord

Victim of Autobiography -- May 10, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 May 17, 2006

There’s more than a cup of coffee... -- May 17, 2006 MSWord

There’s more than a cup of coffee... -- May 17, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 May 24, 2006

What’s in your reflection? -- May 24, 2006 MSWord

What’s in your reflection? -- May 24, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 May 31, 2006

If not you, who? -- May 31, 2006 MSWord

If not you, who? -- May 31, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 June 7, 2006

When too much is too much -- June 7, 2006 MSWord

When too much is too much -- June 7, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 June 14, 2006

Showing a united front -- June 14, 2006 MSWord

Showing a united front -- June 14, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 June 21, 2006

Guess who’s coming to dinner -- June 21, 2006 MSWord

Guess who’s coming to dinner -- June 21, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 June 28, 2006

It’s the old bait and switch -- June 28, 2006 MSWord

It’s the old bait and switch -- June 28, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 July 5, 2006

Time to get connected! -- July 5, 2006 MSWord

Time to get connected! -- July 5, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 July 12, 2006

Nature isn’t separate from Man -- July 12, 2006 MSWord

Nature isn’t separate from Man -- July 12, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 July 19, 2006

Find that middle way! -- July 19, 2006 MSWord

Find that middle way! -- July 19, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 July 26, 2006

Age is all about perspective -- July 26, 2006 MSWord

Age is all about perspective -- July 26, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 August 2, 2006

Rising numbers of children overweight -- August 2, 2006 MSWord

Rising numbers of children overweight -- August 2, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 August 9, 2006

Don’t flip off or flip out -- August 9, 2006 MSWord

Don’t flip off or flip out -- August 9, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 August 16, 2006

Celebrate friendship instead of chips -- August 16, 2006 MSWord

Celebrate friendship instead of chips -- August 16, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 August 23, 2006

Dopey and Grumpy aren’t justices -- August 23, 2006 MSWord

Dopey and Grumpy aren’t justices -- August 23, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 August 30, 2006

Get along to go along -- August 30, 2006 MSWord

Get along to go along -- August 30, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

 September 6, 2006

Bullying in our schools -- September 6, 2006 MSWord

Bullying in our schools -- September 6, 2006 Adobe Acrobat

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